Restorative Justice Part 3
I have included this piece from Parry below for a number of reasons, even though, as Parry says, it is not strictly a footie poem – but it does flow from the contextualisation we have placed upon the Dyer – Bowyer affair, so that’s one reason why it’s here. Also, I am very much involved across a number of schools with anti-bullying restorative justice at the moment and , in addition, a number of schools use our footie pieces and I want them to see this work. I will certainly perform it in assemblies and in public – it’s so powerful. Next point: when we have the time, I intend to write some anti-bullying material for, and with Crispin, to use in school workshops. I am increasingly involved in this side of life and football is fast slipping from my radar screen at the moment.So this now leads to the last point, Crispin and Clik are leading the SSWS project and that might well have a school focus in mind, and that’s where I come from, so if any of the other poets wish to act independently and organise their own books, please feel free! Anyway, excuse early Sunday morning ramblings – please read the piece below sent in by Parry Maguire ( thanks Parry) – and best wishes to you all for the rest of the season, Stuart.
l’Because of you’ – a poetic tribute taken from: http://education.independent.co.uk/news/story.jsp?story=629847
“Because of you – he never done his GCSEs to get the results he wanted.
Because of you – he never got a first job.
Because of you – he never got to say ‘I do’.
Because of you – he never got to have a family of his own.
Because of you – he never got to own his own house.
Because of you – he never got to share the wonderful moments that could have been.
Because of you – you destroyed him, his family and his friends’ lives.
Because of you – you pushed him too far.
Because of you – you took away his smile.
Because of you – you caused him unnecessary pain.
Because of you – our lives will never be the same.
Because of you – our tears will never fade.
Because of you – you made a young boy take his own life, just for fun.
Because of you – he never got to live his dreams.
Selfish people did this to Nathan and now no one’s life will ever be the same.
Because of you.”
Notes:
http://education.independent.co.uk/news/story.jsp?story=629847
Not strictly a football poem i know but BULLYING IS A BIG ISSUE not just in schools but across society in general; a lot of kids access this site and sadly some of them will have come into contact with this kind of cruel behaviour. This is why the actions of Bowyer and Dyer were wrong.
For those interested ChildLine have excellent resources re coping strategies which you can access at www.childline.org
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5th December 2022 at 8:11 pm
Stuart, you are not alone, in your dichotomy of doubt
but without dissention
you stand alone
in hogging our attention!
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16th November 2022 at 11:04 am
[Football on soiled turf]
This is a wonderful phrase which I shall be using from now on!
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15th November 2022 at 3:54 pm
Well said Crispin. One of the reasons for The Ball 2022/23 is exactly this – that FIFA need to know. The Ball is essentially a petition to FIFA to honour their commitments to the UN Sports for Climate Action Framework. They signed up; they should act. The Qatar tournament takes the World Cup in the opposite direction to that commitment. And 2026 looks like it’ll be even worse.
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8th November 2022 at 2:06 pm
Hi Guys
Re ‘Lets Boycott Qatar ‘ poem
You probably hate me banging on..and problably know (like me) that my/your not watching the World Cup in Qatar will make no difference.
Of course it won’t. That’s not the point.
OK someone might possibly eventually publish a minimal drop in terrestrial TV viewer numbers, but I fear that is unlikely.
But please above all, do go on writing poems about the World Cup, as/you we have always done. I hate to think a poem or two of mine might l make you feel bad about comenting on a game or country …or that I’ve put you all off about wanting to contribute.
So we’d love to hear from you and read your thoughts and observations, as ever on what’s going on.
Some of us have been here since Football Poets website birth/inception for the Euros 2000 ….
All my best wishes
Crispin
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18th October 2022 at 10:06 am
Shoot! (Something we’ve also been screaming in vain at our team all season !)
Great memories Joe . Before Shoot, it was Roy of the Rovers comic too, dropping through my letterbox.
Anxiously waiting each week to see if they survived in the mexcian jungle after an ambush..or a pre-season earthquake!
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3rd October 2022 at 8:32 pm
Thanks for the kind words Sharon. Yes, it was a shame with Billy Shako, but with five subs now being allowed, he might yet make it off the bench. Even if it’s just a cameo to close out a poem.
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2nd October 2022 at 1:49 pm
John, your new book is an absolute delight and more please. It’s a shame ‘Swapping Shirts With Shakespeare’ never made it off the bench, but quality football poets light up the writing fields like Roman candles. Go well.
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4th September 2022 at 12:42 pm
Great memories Greg. Took me right back.
Today I stand on a small terrace in the hills where I live watching Forest Green Rovers in L1, and keep up with Chelsea on highlights. It’s a far cry and a world away from those times when I lived as a child within walking distance of ‘The Bridge’ – just off the Ifield Road, which led to Fulham Road. The Blues were rubbish for so long, but we loved them and somehow we stayed in the old First Division for so many seasons. And of course we got to see Greavesie at his impudent best, scoring goals for fun. Mad unpredictable games where we’d score 4 and let in five.
The looming floodlights in the dark and mist on magic night games. The big games when the ground heaved.
I don’t think we ever realized how magical and incredible it was back then. The atmosphere and arriving there so early – like you said.. just to make sure you got in. Back when Bovril, tea and cake and roasted peanuts for sixpence a back were just about all on offer.
Good times.
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4th September 2022 at 12:37 pm
see above
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18th August 2022 at 10:20 am
To put it politely!
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